tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.comments2021-07-21T08:17:44.194+01:00The girl next doors search for loveBonbonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-70846156614720380642017-04-02T10:11:41.978+01:002017-04-02T10:11:41.978+01:00Nice post thanks for posting like this keep postin...Nice post thanks for posting like this keep posting<br /><a href="http://erotik33.de/" title="dating" rel="nofollow">dating</a><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12365452259795756585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-89266511462735716362016-01-17T10:42:49.602+00:002016-01-17T10:42:49.602+00:00Happy New Year! Look forward to more of your wonde...Happy New Year! Look forward to more of your wonderful adventures in 2016Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-88361744540519423322015-09-03T11:43:42.992+01:002015-09-03T11:43:42.992+01:00Thank you, not bad for a Girl who struggled with E...Thank you, not bad for a Girl who struggled with English at school ! . I had noticed how few posts I have written this Year. I hope eventually to complete the story with the dream fairy tale ending! I promise not to keep anyone hanging! <br />As for the book - that is something I can only dream of so far!Bonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-71605338995208522902015-09-03T09:22:30.922+01:002015-09-03T09:22:30.922+01:00((Big Hug)) - I always wonder how you're doing...((Big Hug)) - I always wonder how you're doing in-between posts; will the search be complete & the last post read be the final post ever? Will you come back with more tales with tears. Either way always a great read & I can always equate with everything you write. Surely there's a book to follow? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-41753927009198335062015-02-18T13:03:50.958+00:002015-02-18T13:03:50.958+00:00That would've made a great Catfish show for MT...That would've made a great Catfish show for MTV! Thanks for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-58073750943492070272014-10-24T15:05:31.256+01:002014-10-24T15:05:31.256+01:00It's how we often define our lives. Money, fam...It's how we often define our lives. Money, fame, and power are often what we have been told make up success. If we don't get it, we're consumed with envy of those who do. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-47182148388254259512014-10-23T15:37:17.082+01:002014-10-23T15:37:17.082+01:00Depends what you define as successful!
My dad say...Depends what you define as successful! <br />My dad says I just need to find an old man with a bad cough!Bonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-43584011188096345162014-10-20T15:31:00.549+01:002014-10-20T15:31:00.549+01:00You need to find yourself a successful business ma...You need to find yourself a successful business man Bon. That's pretty much the only profession missing from your list. Or a cook (daytime, not shift).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-40737042826207941902014-03-06T10:58:18.363+00:002014-03-06T10:58:18.363+00:00Sorry to hear that :-(
(But good to have you blo...Sorry to hear that :-( <br /><br />(But good to have you blogging again! - look forward to the updates)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-36971707726170001542013-11-15T14:51:43.524+00:002013-11-15T14:51:43.524+00:00thank you! thank you! Bonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-8169063995826817562013-11-15T14:47:42.102+00:002013-11-15T14:47:42.102+00:00Good to have you back! (& top read of such hap...Good to have you back! (& top read of such happy times!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-84629398648277650932013-02-25T21:41:33.323+00:002013-02-25T21:41:33.323+00:00true , both sexes are equally as bad as each other...true , both sexes are equally as bad as each other. Bonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-84490127233876144672013-02-25T00:02:01.538+00:002013-02-25T00:02:01.538+00:00Fist of all, i think you might be at peace if you ...Fist of all, i think you might be at peace if you could imagine the fact that male and female are dishonest in equal measure.! The positive to gain out of said 'user' is that you realise his motive. In recent times, i have realied very quickly,(last 2 years approx) what someones motive is -I:e 2nd option, samaritan for their support network. <br /><br />I dont dwell, and quickly release the excess crap from head and heart and carry on. An ex from a couple of years back has finaly seen sense from some intelligent mans wisdom and finished with her bf of 18 months. Now i know ive changed imeasurably when i say something like "i wouldnt even get anywhere near some of the situations you were in and the allowances you made". <br /><br />Men & women should both realise.. "i am not stupid".:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-15468460777630311372013-01-23T13:38:41.631+00:002013-01-23T13:38:41.631+00:00Hiya JS!
I agree with you. If asked specifically o...Hiya JS!<br />I agree with you. If asked specifically out for dinner then the man should pay (or the woman if she asks) otherwise its go Dutch. I always try and pay my way but was a bit put out by this one as he made me wait till he got paid which led me to believe he was picking up the tab!<br /><br />Glad to hear you had a new date, shame it didnt go so well.<br />Onwards we go!Bonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-20638109381295734752013-01-22T23:16:20.907+00:002013-01-22T23:16:20.907+00:00Hmmm this is an interesting one. Depends on the pe...Hmmm this is an interesting one. Depends on the person(s). Generaly,ive gone Dutch on a meal, because most dates have been on better wages than me. I dont like a meal on a 1st date as its cringeworthy if you know theres to be no sequel. Woman i went out with in 2010 for 6 months, earned way more than me and we had a meal nearly every week. Usually i would pay one week (no matter how much) and we took it turns as i think its seems better than going Dutch. We knew what each other earned but it didnt come in to the equasion either way, though maaan could she afford it more than me lol. All said and done, i would buy her little spontaneous gifts,(as is my trademark) which she never did, but hey ho. <br /><br />If someone actually says 'i'll take you out for a meal', sounds like they're paying. If its 'fancy going for an indian on saturday'? - thats 'going dutch' as far as i see it. There are still women who love the equality of the modern day womans life alongside the mans world, yet they still expect men to pay for everything (even if woman is on higher wages), that in any language cant be right.<br /><br />The other week i went for a 1st date and bought a drink and then you're waiting for the lady to offer to buy a round..nothing. So as before, i buy round number 2, but then there's no way on earth im getting round 3 in, and that speaks volumes about the other person to me. In my experience, most women are pretty good for going Dutch in the modern day and i dont count it penny for penny, and im a generous person by nature.<br /><br />Now there's also that point when you've realised your date is a total tight arse (male or female) in which case,you need to make bail out of that quick.:)<br />JS Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-5530571862400859732012-11-18T13:55:42.815+00:002012-11-18T13:55:42.815+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03900118082609435516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-4011508361731498572012-10-30T20:01:03.787+00:002012-10-30T20:01:03.787+00:00Thanks Maddie. Over 4 years dating to get down on...Thanks Maddie. Over 4 years dating to get down on paper so to speak !<br />Bonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-22134128615259834892012-10-30T18:36:32.576+00:002012-10-30T18:36:32.576+00:00Oh wow you are now my new dating idol, dating up a...Oh wow you are now my new dating idol, dating up a storm gurrl, cant wait to see what happens next <br /><br />xx Maddie<br /><br />http://maddiemadridadventures.blogspot.com.es/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03900118082609435516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-37030886381824100362012-10-30T18:35:01.164+00:002012-10-30T18:35:01.164+00:00haha Oh wow so annoying that he didn't say hey...haha Oh wow so annoying that he didn't say hey, imagine how awesome it would have been if he had! argh the excitment hehe xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03900118082609435516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-46015207959712484202012-07-25T20:46:20.789+01:002012-07-25T20:46:20.789+01:00I think dating is a different mindset for men and ...I think dating is a different mindset for men and women in this situation. Im pretty sure ive got to that point where, i would cut my losses and recognise someone who isnt really in to me before the 1st date at least. Incredible that a blow out can mean a percieved better date is on offer for said arsehole. I think if someone is chatting to more than 1, they should at least be decent enough to give you an audition after all the texts and mutual banter.!<br /><br />Im thinking that maybe its men who do this 1st date blow out thing or ive have honed my intuition and self preservation.:)<br /><br />JSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-87561457794954310592012-06-19T15:49:26.786+01:002012-06-19T15:49:26.786+01:00I ofter see things with vw's on..t shirts,pain...I ofter see things with vw's on..t shirts,paintings,books..etc. Only think of one person. :) jsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-24489312814322698772012-06-07T01:39:02.492+01:002012-06-07T01:39:02.492+01:00Dont worry Bon, you're fine honing your spidy ...Dont worry Bon, you're fine honing your spidy senses with great effect. People become very transparent, once you dismiss the Bullshit in your head and let go. Your heart is for loving and not for giving the benefit of the doubt to deceitful morons.:) JayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-41799557550450655312012-04-10T21:08:02.670+01:002012-04-10T21:08:02.670+01:00I have a built in bullshit detector, it can tell w...I have a built in bullshit detector, it can tell when someone is not interested by duration of gaps and complete lack of interest in what your texts say.:) JSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-3989245156199104312012-04-10T19:30:15.127+01:002012-04-10T19:30:15.127+01:00I do see it coming more often from a far. You star...I do see it coming more often from a far. You start to notice changes in behaviour easier and notice when too many excuses are being used! I realsie not everyone texts back straight away etc as life can get busy at times. But when its one extreme to the other- long gaps of days followed by non stop texting then my antena goes up and I think - er you young man are not worth my attention!Bonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104213839173796290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388788591725652678.post-16971071821431275622012-04-10T19:21:45.922+01:002012-04-10T19:21:45.922+01:00I believe it could be a case of either spotting th...I believe it could be a case of either spotting the signs early on in this case..or realising that many of these type of twats exist and to put in the category of "i will not get stressed just dismiss". I think once you get used to dismissing each type of dating situation, the anger/frustration can be controlled. You have to think that these people are probably not only going to be like that with other women but also possess a dishonest streak. After all, there are ways and there are ways to deal with great human beings... JS 2012Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com